Manipulation : Learn To Spot And Avoid Manipulation As An Empath | Improve Your Emotional Intelligence In Work And Life by Greene Jacob

Author:Greene, Jacob [Greene, Jacob]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: LM & GX Media House
Published: 2018-09-24T16:00:00+00:00

7. Alternating your reality

“It is nothing but your imagination. ”

Making you question yourself is classic way manipulators try in an office. If you aren’t confident about the things you see, feel or hear, you start depending on the manipulator to make decisions. A co-worker, a senior and even a junior can have this manipulative control over you. Anything that you say is turned into an imaginary reality of your own. This technique affects your personality, professional expertise and even your reputation in the office.

So what if I presented your project? I have done everything you asked. It is your own insecurity.

You might have already experienced many instances where people tried questioning your own realities. Make sure it doesn’t happen anymore.

8. Irrelevant blaming

“If you do not give me this promotion, you’re sexist.”

For a manipulator, every office day is a mission in which he or she wants to conquer others and overpower them. Whether it is a simple conversation or a meeting, manipulators keep trying sabotaging your image, and irrelevant blaming is one of the many weapons they use. This technique is used to take an interaction to a whole new dimension.

For instance, if you are not ready to promote a female employee, you immediately become a feminist for this manipulator. The idea is to hit your sensitive side hard enough so you diverge from the actual motive of a conversation. The frustration hits and you start guarding yourself instead of presenting actual facts relevant to the conversation .

Stay in such an environment for long and you will lose your self-confidence. Your image will be twisted and your thoughts will become less important with time.

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